Jubilee 2009- Singleness and Spirituality

1. Breaksession1 Singleness and Spirituality by Abbie Smith
Currently, single is regraded as "impartiality" in the church.

But church is a body of Christ. (Corinthians 고린도전서 ch12: 12-27), each part of the body is each human being, every part is important and unified to embody, union of the father, life of the body.

Sexuality, literally means "being a man/woman" .There is no need of fear or to defeat sexuality.
Human being has,in nature, a longing or the desire of hug, sleep, eat, thirst and connect(related).
Nothing is wring with singleness.

However, I could not solve my own question. What about the loneliness?
I think "loneliness" is an eternal friend of human being, I mean, "loneliness" is inevitable feeling even though one can marry or have children. I saw many lonely married couples. Human, in nature, feels lonely.... always.
However, how can I embrace the "loneliness" for my life? ( I don't want to say "overcome" , I'd rather say "embrace")
This is the first question I could not solve.

Whenever I feel loneliness, I want to make a phone call to someone and then I open the cell phone and look up my phone lists but I don't have any one to call.
Just a few minute talk ,whatever the topic is, is enough for those times.
But I don't want to express my feeling to friends in order not to infect my negative feeling to them and I can't pray because I think those feelings are too minor to talk to the God.

I may want just a few-minutes talk or just hanging out for a couple of time or just one hug. But nothing is happened always, instead I get to bed and fall to sleep... always.

Humans are lonely. I know,
God is our friend. I know,
But sometimes I miss human's voice or shoulder. Is it bad or is it good?
Still I cannot solve this.